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Built by and for older gay men. Real conversations, real meetups, and a community we run ourselves.
No ads. Ever.
We don't sell your attention. Your membership is what keeps the lights on.
Real members
Aggressive moderation against fakes and scams. People come here to actually meet each other.
Beyond the screen
Local meetups, events, a forum, and a newsletter — things the dating apps don't do.
Choose your tier
User
Free
no card required
Basic membership with essential features
- Photo uploads: 3
- Daily messages: 1
- Daily video views: 3
- Private video chat
- See who follows you
- Vote on new features
- Early access to collections
- See who visits your profile
- Read receipts on messages you sent
- Private notes on profiles
- Incognito browsing
- VIP recognition
Fan
$5
per month
or $54/year (save 10%)
Enhanced membership supporting the community
- Photo uploads: 10
- Daily messages: 3
- Daily video views: 10
- Private video chat
- See who follows you
- Vote on new features
- Early access to collections
- See who visits your profile
- Read receipts on messages you sent
- Private notes on profiles
- Incognito browsing
- VIP recognition
Patron
$10
per month
or $108/year (save 10%)
Premium membership with expanded features
- Photo uploads: 20
- Daily messages: 5
- Daily video views: 30
- Private video chat
- See who follows you
- Vote on new features
- Early access to collections
- See who visits your profile
- Read receipts on messages you sent
- Private notes on profiles
- Incognito browsing
- VIP recognition
Hero
$15
per month
or $162/year (save 10%)
Top-tier membership with unlimited features
- Photo uploads: Unlimited
- Daily messages: Unlimited
- Daily video views: Unlimited
- Private video chat
- See who follows you
- Vote on new features
- Early access to collections
- See who visits your profile
- Read receipts on messages you sent
- Private notes on profiles
- Incognito browsing
- VIP recognition
What's included
| Feature | 🆓User | 🌟Fan | ⭐Patron | 🏆Hero |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Photo uploads | 3 | 10 | 20 | Unlimited |
| Daily messages | 1 | 3 | 5 | Unlimited |
| Daily video views | 3 | 10 | 30 | Unlimited |
| Private video chat | ||||
| See who follows you | ||||
| Vote on new features | ||||
| Early access to collections | ||||
| See who visits your profile | ||||
| Read receipts on messages you sent | ||||
| Private notes on profiles | ||||
| Incognito browsing | ||||
| VIP recognition |
Frequently asked
Why Patreon?
We use Patreon so you can change or cancel any time without fighting a hidden subscription page. One click to upgrade, one click to leave.
Can I switch tiers?
Yes. Edit your pledge on Patreon. Your benefits update on the site within a few minutes after we sync.
What happens if I cancel?
You keep your membership benefits through the end of your billing period, then return to the free User tier. Your profile, photos, and conversations stay yours.
Annual or monthly?
Annual saves you 10% and helps us plan ahead. Either choice unlocks the same benefits.
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